What’s a trigger?
A trigger is
Disclaimer: I am not a therapist or counselor. I am a life coach. Everything written here is simply based on my own experience in an attempt to inspire others.
Triggers can suddenly put you in a tailspin and make it hard to focus, breathe and perform daily tasks.
Some signs of a trigger can be a racing heart, sweating, trouble catching your breath, feeling of oncoming doom or feeling sick to your stomach. Out of the blue, you may feel like crying, running away or shouting. Maybe you feel anger, shame or helpless. Triggers can also cause us to overeat or just binge on anything not good for us. They can also cause us to sit frozen and feeling hopeless, unable to move forward or focus on the tasks at hand.
As an abuse survivor, it is very important to learn to recognize when a trigger hits. Realize you are not defective or crazy, or even incapable, maybe just a little beat up or tired. Learn to be kind to yourself when this happens. Self-love is critical. When you do recognize this is
Something like deep breathing, a good belly laugh (or two or three), taking a walk, getting some sunshine, calling a trusted friend, playing with your pet. Make sure it is something that makes you feel safe and loved. The more you learn to recognize a trigger and stop it the better you will become at staying in the present and in a positive mindset.
As you pay attention and watch for triggers you will learn to recognize them when they hit. And trust me, the more you watch for them the better you will become at catching them before they disable you.
Examples of my triggers:
Seeing someone angry – anywhere, TV, on the road, etc.
For you, a trigger might be a song or a smell, really anything that can bring back a memory or emotion. The important part is to learn to watch for a trigger and stop it cold so it doesn’t stop you.
The next time you feel any of these things start to get to
Do you have any good tips for stopping triggers in their tracks? Tell me about it in the comments below!
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